June Lately

It’s just past 10 am on a Tuesday and I am almost at the bottom of my first cup of coffee.

I had my last day at my job on Friday, but life hasn’t slowed down. Though my husband and I got married at the courthouse already, we are also having a church wedding very soon. Planning a “simple wedding” has been a part-time job for the both of us. I couldn’t be prouder we’ve managed to do it (with ample use of a Trello board), but we are also insanely tired and glad the planning part is nearly done. Hopefully it appears effortless to our guests!

More than any of the celebrations though, I’m just thrilled to start a new life with him. We are not spring chickens anymore, but hopefully we have enough wisdom and maturity to make the years together a bit easier. (And as the best, most dashing man on this earth, he was well worth waiting for. ❤ )

I haven’t been reading a whole lot as you might imagine, but I am still making my leisurely way through Storm by George R Stewart. This novel is full of what now feels like American nostalgia—the cool confidence and fortitude you associate with the better aspects of the 40s, when the CCC was building bridges in the national parks and people still tuned into the radio to hear the weather. To be sure, much of the novel reads like a weather forecast, but not in a bad way. I appreciate how Stewart ties together different vignettes of people’s lives and how the storm “Maria” impacts them. While the book’s main human characters are weather men in an urban office, Stewart does not shirk from showing us grimmer scenes, such as the existential suffering of a sailor or a farmer. The book feels very even-handed and matter-of-fact thus far.

My breakfast hour draws to its end and I must get up and do some chores. The world is a frightening place today, but just to have breakfast and eat it in quiet means I have a safe and privileged life. Who knows for how long? I have seen some people online say it feels wrong to enjoy anything right now, and I absolutely understand it. I was so distraught this weekend, and have been for months. But I also know my grandpa—who grew up during WW2 and was drafted as a conscientious objector—would want me to be happy and smile in the simple joys of life. It’s good to make pure memories to carry with you forever, no matter what happens in the future.



10 responses to “June Lately”

  1. Best wishes to the both of you! Have you moved to Airstrip One?

    And I know what you mean about the weekend news. The almost immediate breaking of the cease-fire was exasperating.

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    1. I just got off the phone this morning, trying to explain why I won’t be around for jury duty next month. XD Moving very soon! And thanks for the wishes. I’m glad I can still blog from anywhere!

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  2. CONGRATULATIONS! I hope that you have MANY happy years together.

    Its mostly certainly NOT wrong to enjoy yourself in “these times”. It’s almost a duty, a responsibility, an act of resistance, an act of affirmation! I recommend you *not* felt even the slightest HINT of guilt for being happy! Things will unfold as they will so you might as well take pleasure in things as much as you (both) can….

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    1. Thank you, Cyberkitten! 🙂 Yes, I hope our wedding will be a joyful time in spite of these things.

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  3. Best wishes to both of you going forward. This is a short note to confirm that after retirement, life does not slow down at all, based on two decades of retiring and wondering where the time goes.

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    1. Thank you, Jim! 🙂

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  4. Congratulations Marian! Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness, good health & togetherness! Also now that your job is over and done with, you can perhaps focus on things you really want to do or just not do anything. The World today is not a happy place, but we have to find our joys to sustain ourselves & support others through this time!

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    1. Thank you Cirtnecce! It is nice to hear from you ❤

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  5. Congratulations on your new beginning!

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